Hi, my name is Ruby.
I’m an earth-lover, a truth-seeker, a mischief-maker, seemingly born with a fierceness for discerning what feels truthful beyond my conditioning and embodying that, regardless of how against the grain it might be. And that hasn’t always been easy!
My passion is to support women in living a life that feels honest, courageous and aligned with their essence, through a deeper connection to their body, it’s wisdom and cyclical rhythms…
I believe that at times we can all benefit from someone accompanying us on our journey for a while: supporting us to connect to our inner truth and guidance system, especially when we sense that old evolutions of ourselves are wearing thin, and something new is wanting to emerge. In times of transition and untrodden paths, there are no manuals or easy maps – but a compassionate witness, listening ear and mirror can support you in navigating them.
Again and again I am awed and humbled by my clients, the journeys I am able to witness, and the intelligence inherent in our bodies if we are receptive, pause and listen.
Encoded into our bodies lies a remarkable template of wholeness and balance: our wombs in their cyclical rhythms hold a powerful key towards reclaiming our sense of connection, well-being, fuelling our creativity and alignment with our sacred purpose in life.
Learning to discern who we are as cyclical beings in a culturally linear world, becoming adept at the language our bodies speak to us and deciphering challenging symptoms, our menstrual cycle ‘works’ us, revealing each month, what it is that requires addressing and integrating. Within us we have a perfect model of balance: our cycle can support us to make our peace with the Yang – our ability to show up and express ourselves, and the Yin – our right to rest, to be receptive to life.
And I believe that this balance matters: our planet needs us to dismantle the ways we’ve ingrained unsustainable and oppressive systems within us, and the story that we are separate. It needs us to learn how to cultivate a sacred relationship with ourselves first and foremost, as foundation for our how we relate to life.
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My Mentoring Sessions are for women who:
○ would like to explore life beyond being a ‘human-doing’, and cultivate a more balanced and integrated approach to living
○ are curious to get to know their own bodies more, learn to read their language, follow their guidance and feel a sense of belonging and home within
○ would like to learn how to use their menstrual cycle to tap more into their creativity and how life wishes to express itself through them
○ would like to learn how to reframe and proudly embody the qualities we have been taught by society to think of as weak; such as receptivity, softness, surrender, and how to develop emotional literacy and maturity
○ are wanting to explore their creative potential, learning how to move beyond self-doubt and shame, into manifesting their gifts into the world
○ would like support in the journey of shedding and walking the path of the unknown
○ are seeking to cultivate the capacity to live with an open heart, honouring who you are as sovereign yet interdependent being.
“Working with Ruby for 3 months, has seen me transition in a way I was not expecting. It brought to light to a lot of what was happening already but in a safe, curious, loving way that allows for change to just appear. The cycle awareness has helped me transition and blossom, it feels, into womanhood!
Ruby is like a gentle sister, helping me witness and celebrate my achievements, giving voice to my inner critic and space for my inner child. Our weekly calls helped me keep my inner dialogue and reflection process alive and offered a lot of acceptance into what is.
This is an invitation for a personal journey but also a collective one. Ruby is a wonderful teacher, very true, passionate and wise. Her offering is extremely generous and life honouring.”
And about my professional qualifications: I have a degree in Psychology, am a certified sexological bodyworker, have trained with the Red School and am currently studying with Thomas Hübl, although I feel that what I have to offer is mainly thanks to four decades of the life experience and enquiry.
Some of the themes that I feel I have been initiated into through my life experiences:
Burn out and addiction to ‘doing’, navigating different relationship forms, menstrual cycle awareness and living cyclically, living in community, being a hyper-sensitive, dealing with complex PTSD (post traumatic stress disorder), working with the inner child and the inner tyrant and developing self-compassion and kindness, being a self-employed entrepreneur and ‘living the dream’, working with plant spirits, shadow integration, authentic sexual expression, moving beyond co-dependent relating, boundaries, needs, emotional literacy & body literacy.
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Session Series:
6 x 1 hour (1 per week or every other week) = 360 euros // also payable in instalments //
12 x 1 hour (1 per week or every other week) = 600 euros // also payable in instalments //